Yazidi and Assyrian communities are indigenous to Iraq and until this day many do not know what they are because of the genocide they experience back home.
Dozens of Yazidi women and girls systematically raped, sold and married off to jihadists after being abducted by IS from their ancestral Iraqi home have faced the same gut-wrenching dilemma. What to do about the children born of these forced unions? Now freed, the women are desperate to heal from the wounds inflicted on the conservative minority.
Psychologically too, Kheder said the Yazidi society remained too scarred by the prolonged abduction of their own people to accept raising the children of their abusers.
The most painful wound is that hundreds of men, women, and children remain missing, despite hopes they would be found after IS's "caliphate" collapsed in March.