When we think of the most coveted and for many, once-in-a-life-time journey, to the 'Hajj', we often consider only the honor and the perks that go with the experience. Many of us only see the benefits, like the dates and holy water (zam-zam) that smiling pilgrims proudly carry home to share. The Eid that directly follows the Hajj time , known as Eid al Adha (or Feast of Sacrifice), brings to mind only the sacrificed sheep and the cheery celebrations. But there is another side to the pilgrimage and the ...